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There Are Rules
Love energy knows that there is a set of rules, but you never have to hold it up in the air and preach about it. You never have to tell loving people that social rules say you cannot hit another person when you’re upset because it would never cross your mind that...
Awareness Reveals Character
When we talked about transparency in our master class, one of our senior leaders said she thought she was transparent for years until she went through the core values exercise and realized that earlier in life, she chose values that were not really hers. She...
Root Causes Matter
This time, our blog starts with an example from Lynn’s organization to help us understand how getting to the root cause of problems is the best way to solve them. This story is not intended to “call out” any individual, in fact, we are using pseudonyms...
Fear and Love – Basics
In this blog, we want to provide a more fundamental discussion of fear and love. First, they are not emotions as you might think, rather they are states of energy. We express energy either fearfully or lovingly. When we experience fear or love energy, emotions...
Root Cause Indicators
This series of blogs, On Fear and Love, is intellectually dense, meaning that we are talking about a complex subject from an expert’s viewpoint. Our goal is not to make our readers Ph.D. candidates, but to illuminate the close relationship between fear and love....
What is Control?
We’re taking a deeper look at emotions – how they are expressed, whether our expression of emotion is “socially-acceptable” and how people try to control others through emotions. Let’s look at an example that you may have witnessed at some...
Expressions of Character
We believe love (positive) energy or fear (negative) energy undergirds all our emotions. Stated another way, emotions are an expression of our beliefs with the fear and the love energy behind them. That energy is expressed through our character. Good energy...
Was it the Chicken?
Codependence in its many forms is a coping strategy, albeit a poor one, to mitigate fear. The codependent person believes he or she is only worthy if they are validated by some external factor. Lynn related back to her transformational experience she shared in a previous...
Close Connections
Fear and Love are closely connected to many other emotions – all of them, in fact! Emotions are indicators of our state of being, whether that be fear or love. They are a gateway to our awareness of deeper feelings. They emerge at the threshold between our...
Fear vs. Love
In our last blog post, we exposed some myths about fear and love. One of the myths about fear and love is that you can draw a horizontal line with fear at one end and love at the other, in opposition to each other. We are here to challenge that notion. Nobody on planet Earth ...
What’s Missing?
In Blog 1, we talked about our reasons for writing this series On Fear and Love. In part, it’s based on our belief that some of you gain knowledge or have an experience that makes you want to seek more out of life. Curiosity rises into your conscious state of...
The Language of Fear
The language of Fear is “Either-Or” which requires an absolute viewpoint. It’s binary like the computer language. It’s on or it’s off. We subconsciously believe that we must protect ourselves and we defend ourselves from Fear. It raises a...
